FAMILY CHANGES SINCE 1960
Many experts cite the weakening of the family as one of the causes for some of the problems that society faces today. Do you agree? In your paper, include the following information:
• Identify important or significant changes in families since 1960. What factors are responsible for this change?
• On the balance, are families becoming weaker or simply different? What evidence can you cite?
• If you agree with the experts, what proposals do you have to strengthen the family?
• If you disagree with experts, why?
FAMILY CHANGES SINCE 1960
I tend to agree with experts in their debate of the weakening of ties between families as the factor resulting in to a ‘rotten' society. In the 1960's, families were ran by both the man and the wife. Fathers took the responsibility of working while women took care of the young and family chores. (Pew Research Center 2010). Changes occurred when mothers started to work to support their families. Inner family residents dealt with single parenthood resulting from jailing of the father or death or from unwilling to support the family.
This lead children to take care of themselves as mothers were busy looking for work as the economy had drastically changed. Divorces rocked most families that brought rifts between children and parents.
Children needed their parental love but the parents tried to occupy their children. The children grew up with many problems. Mothers could keep up to 3 hubbies. Increase in income and the changing personalities among members of the family led to more and more changes. People had forsaken the old way of doing things (man at work, women at home taking care of the family) (Davis, 1991).
I am on the side of experts. Some of the things I would propose for stronger ties between families are love, loyalty, commitment, communication, laughter, leadership, spiritual wellness and time together. Other things to make the family stronger are working hard to make the best income for your family to be contented with what they have. Learning life in marriage, parenting, life and family are also a key factor to a happy family. Each member should keep the family priorities and values ringing in their minds. Most individual don't realize the importance of a family thus see no need to better it leading to he break up of it.( James, 2008).
A successful family is made of good communication, appreciation, spending more time with ones family and reinforcing the commitments. Spiritual wellness has the good in that it enables individuals in a family cope up with crises; appreciate one another, seeing the importance of one spending time with his/her family and the commitments to each other. Good communication between children and paren5ts and between a husband and a wife is the key to a successful family. This would result to no problems to the society.