Assignment - Write 2 paragraphs. One for the praise and one for constructive criticism.
Think of someone you need to praise and someone to whom you would like to give constructive criticism. Prepare feedback for each person. Use the following steps:
1. Begin by writing a sentence that identifies your general impression of each person.
2. For each person, recall and write down the specific behaviors, actions, and messages that led to your impression.
3. Identify all the consequences that have resulted from the way this person has acted or spoken.
4. If you have any advice that seems appropriate to give to this person, record it.
5. Take your answers from 1-4 and write a short feedback message for each person that follows the guidelines for effective praise or criticism.
Example:
Praise for my daughter
Emily, you are one of the most creative and compassionate people I know. Whenever I see your artwork, I am simply amazed by your talent. You are also incredibly talented with your fictional stories. By far, I am most impressed with your compassion. Whenever you see someone hurting, you do anything possible to help them. I love how you always check on me when you get the feeling that I am stressed out.
Because of your kindness, compassion and creativity, I have yet to meet anyone who has not adored you - everyone thinks you are one in a million. My advice to you is to hold on to that truth. You are amazing just the way you are. Bruno Mars thinks so too;-)
I am so lucky to be your mom. Just know, I love you to the moon and back and I will always be your number one fan.