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How can I make notes with bullet points in this paragraph?
Option A signals what is known as a secure pattern of attachment, whereby love and trust come easily.
Option B is as anxious attachment, where one longs to be intimate with others but is continuously scared of letdown and often precipitates crises in relationships through counter-productively aggressive behaviour. And
Option C refers to the avoidant pattern of attachment, where it feels much easier to avoid the dangers of intimacy through solitary activities and emotional withdrawal.
Questionnaires in newspapers are rarely of much use but Hazan's and Shaver's is the momentous exception. If there is one thing we should do to improve our relationships, it is to know which of the three categories we predominantly belong to - and to deploy the knowledge in love so as to warn ourselves and others of the traps we might fall into. We then need a little training because half of us at least are not secure in love; we belong in the camps of either the avoidant or the anxious, and we have - to complicate matters - an above average propensity to fall in love with someone from the other damaged side. Thereby aaaravatina our insecurities damaged side, thereby aggravating our insecurities and defences in the process. Niccolo Pisano An Idyll: Daphnis and Chloe Here is a brief list of what avoidants and anxious types should keep in mind in their relationships: Need Assignment Help?