Problem:
Attraction in counseling must be handled carefully due to the inherent power differential. The ACA Code of Ethics (2014) provides clear direction in each scenario.
As a student, how will you respond to this classmate below, include in-text citation, references and ask questions
If both the client and I experienced attraction, I would not pursue the relationship and would address the issue therapeutically while seeking supervision. The ACA clearly states, "Counselors do not engage in sexual or romantic relationships with current clients" (A.5.a; ACA, 2014). Referral would be necessary to protect the client from harm and exploitation. Need Assignment Help?
If I felt attraction toward a client but the client did not express similar feelings, I would not disclose my emotions and would consult with a supervisor. Counselors are required to monitor personal reactions and avoid impairing objectivity: "Counselors are aware of their own values, attitudes, beliefs, and behaviors and avoid imposing values that are inconsistent with counseling goals" (A.4.b; ACA, 2014). Referral would be considered if my feelings interfered with effective counseling (A.6.a).
If a client expressed attraction and I did not share those feelings, I would normalize the experience, maintain boundaries, and explore the meaning of the attraction clinically. Counselors must avoid relationships that could cause harm (A.6.a).
When referral is not possible, increased supervision, clear boundaries, documentation, and ongoing ethical evaluation are essential.