Question 1: Call to mind your three closest friends in middle school. Then do the same for high school. Now think about your three closet friends today. Are the lists the same? How have they changed? Why? What does this tell you about the volatility of friendships?
Question 2: Social Exchange Theory suggests that relationships are full of rewards and costs. Consider the rewards and costs you bring to your friendships. What makes you costly? What rewards do you provide? How can you improve you own communication style in relationships? What maintenance strategies would most enhances your relationship?