Problem: Sociologist John Lee identified six "colors" or categories of love: Eros is the name for love that is passionate, romantic, and physical. Ludus: Love that is lighthearted and fun, like playing games. Stalkge is a type of love that starts as a friendship and grows slowly but stays the same. Pragma is a kind of love that is based on what makes sense and how well two people get along. Mania is the term for love that is needy, possessive, and obsessive. Agape: Love that doesn't care about itself, gives everything, and looks out for other people. Men score higher on Ludus, which means they see love as a game or a challenge. This is one way that men and women are different. Women do better than men when they think about how well they get along with others, how much they value friendship in a relationship (Storge), and how relationships make them feel more emotional and anxious (Mania). Need Assignment Help?