Differences in Interpersonal Communication
Danny and Chad are walking down the street on their way to share lunch at a local diner when they are approached by an energetic college student carrying a clipboard. She steps in their path and introduces herself:
"Hi, my name is Amy. I'm collecting signatures and contact information on our petition to stop the demolition of the historic clock tower at Old Main Hall. Would you gentlemen please sign and support our cause?"
Danny happily takes hold of the clipboard and writes down his name, address, and telephone number. When he is finished, he hands it to Chad, who politely hands it right back to Amy and tells her he would rather not share his contact information, but thanks her anyway.
These men are best friends and have known each other since elementary school. It is no surprise that they share similar interests and like many of the same things. However, one of the major differences between them deals with the issue of personal privacy.
Everyone behaves and communicates differently, even if in just subtle ways. Consider the example with Chad and Danny and think about the factors that led to a difference in each man's response. In your text readings this week, you examine individual differences that affect interpersonal communication-differences that are based in metaphor, reference, and other contextual or cultural interpretations. Individual differences like these come from various factors.
Recognizing these factors is vital to understanding why people communicate the way they do and their underlying motivations. In this Application Assignment, you analyze individual differences in interpersonal communication.
To prepare:
Reflect on your own interpersonal communication style or approach. What factors have influenced the way you communicate?
Review Chapters 2 and 14 in Interpersonal Communication: A Goals-Based Approach. Consider what impact individual differences have on interpersonal communication.
Write an essay of at least 300 words in which you explain individual differences in interpersonal interactions. Include responses to the following:
Identify some factors that underscore individual differences in interpersonal communication.
Explain how these factors influence these differences.
Explain how your style of interpersonal communication exemplifies some of these differences.
Provide at least one example in your explanation. Be sure to support your work with specific citations from this week's Learning
Resources and any additional sources.