Problem
The person that you are dating feels they should have a say in who your friends are. Your partner tells you that since you're in a relationship with them, you shouldn't talk to your exes or hang out with people your partner doesn't approve of. They sometimes get jealous when they see you talking to certain people on social media because they think it's considered flirting and could lead to cheating. You let your partner know you both should be able to be friends with whoever you want and that you should be able to trust each other.
a) Are the accusations in this scenario reasonable? Why or why not?
b) Are there healthy boundaries this relationship? Why or why not?
c) What are the real issues in this relationship?
d) Are there possible compromises for this situation? If so, what?
e) Is this behavior healthy, unhealthy or abusive? Explain.
f) How would you manage and resolve this conflict?