Problem:
Comment on each of the case study handouts. Provide your perspective on what advice each writer should receive based on the readings from last week and this week. Tell Me About It (Los Angeles Times, Sept. 2006) based on this case study: Dear Carolyn: My husband and I have a chronic disagreement that neither of us can see a way to resolve short of divorcing or moving away. His former wife (and the mother of his 14-year old son) is a toxic presence in our life. He refuses to set boundaries with her, and she is constantly calling and e-mailing him about practical issues regarding their child. She is often rude and manipulative. She has taken him to court several times to increase child support and has had her requests denied by the judge. I have tried to develop a civil relationship with her for my stepson's sake; however, she refuses to speak to me. She is openly contemptuous of me, in front of my stepson. My husband does nothing to support me, and I am hurt and angry. Her refusal to communicate with me also makes it difficult for me to play an active role as a stepmother. His perspective: I need therapy. He doesn't like her but can't control her behavior. I do see that, but I would like - and have asked unsuccessfully - for him to tell her that he doesn't like it and won't tolerate it. His point is that they have to talk about their child. I feel frustrated and powerless. Any advice? Am I the only one who needs therapy here? Frustrated Second Wife and Stepmom. Need Assignment Help?