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Appelrouth, S., & Edles, L. D. (2010). Sociological Theory in the Contemporary Era: Text and Readings. (2nd Ed). Thousand Oaks, California: Sage Publications.
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Goffman's central concept of impression management refers to both the "verbal and nonverbal practices we employ in an attempt to present an acceptable image of our self to others" (Appelrouth & Edles, 2010, p. 196). People conceal what they do not wish to show and show what they think would be acceptable in a given situation with a given audience.
Goffman's concept of Stage Theory is that we have a front stage and a back stage just like in a theatrical performance. The front stage is what a person shows to the public, an altered appearance and demeanor according to their social situation, which is for the benefit of others.
The back stage is more of the true and private self that benefits the self and close loved ones, and a place where a person can prepare for another presentation of their front stage self.
Goffman's concept of "performances" is how a person selects and acts out their required persona in accordance to society's "stereotyped expectations" of them, as well as, the setting and the performers understanding of the interaction (Appelrouth & Edles, 2010, p.202).
A regular day for me usually consists of being on back stage because I am a stay-at-home mom. At home with my family I am able to relax and be open with my flaws. I only have to be cautious of what I present to my children so as not to be a bad influence on them.
When I do venture out, say to run errands or take my littles on an adventure, I am on front stage. This is when I am dresses appropriately, speak kindly and with respect to others, take others into consideration as I navigate through society, and follow basic social rules and norms.
I could walk through the grocery store in my sweats, hair in a bun, listening to music without headphones, and playing silly games with my toddler, but all of that would not be appropriate behavior for the front stage and I would be gawked at and deemed rude and a poor "performer".